Thursday, March 18

On Seta...pushing 40.

(She's gonna kill me for that title!) haha! 
 Today, my oldest sister (she's the one in the middle, pictured here with 3 of her 5 girls) turned *ahem* 37. Yes, 37!! Ugh, that means I am soon to turn 32 and NOT looking forward to it! Anyway, she is the first of the 4 girls in our family, and she is currently expecting baby #8 (a boy to join 2 older brothers). I really don't know how she does it. When I was on *insert another AHEM here* "vacation" towards the end of last year, I stayed with her family of 9. Immediately I was humbled at the amount of work it takes to raise 7 children, esp with the 4 youngest ones so close in age. I only have 2 children and I don't have half the energy it takes to care for them with the consistency she does. I learned a lot from her about patience and the divine role of mother. Despite all the chaos that having a large family can bring, my sister never loses her cool, never complains, still has time to serve others, and most definitely never asks for "me" time. It just seemed like motherhood was her thing and it made me feel like it was NOT mine, because I do such a horrible job in comparison. Even with the demands that her children, her husband, and her church calling has on her, she still took the time to care for the needs of mine and my children. I never missed home when I was in hers, and Lole just had the time of her life being around all her cousins everyday. I miss her dearly but I am grateful we can still talk on the phone. She is always there for me when I need her. I love you sis! HAPPY BIRTHDAY...and MUCH MUCH MORE!
I "borrowed" this picture from her FB, because obviuosly, I wasn't there.

3 comments:

Emerson Experiment said...

Hebi hebi Sister!

UNGA said...

THAT IS WHY I'M SO GRATEFUL FOR ARETASETA!! WHAT A COOL MOM!!

UNGA said...

ARETASETA!! MY IDOL FOR THE MOST PATIENCE AS A MOTHER! BEST HOMEMAKER EVER AND I'M SO GRATEFUL FOR HER EXAMPLE OF A GREAT MOTHER! AND SHE AGES SO GRACEFULLY!! OFA ATU SETA!!